Your Tips on Getting a Fussy Child to Eat, and Six Recipes They’ll Love
Ninoda.com – With summer holidays approaching, many parents face the challenge of getting their children to try new foods. From broccoli to other vegetables, mealtimes can become a battleground for even the most well-meaning parents. To help navigate this, the BBC sought advice from families on making eating a more enjoyable experience for little ones.
Simple Strategies for Encouraging Better Eating Habits
Natalia, a mother of four from south-west London, shares her approach to making vegetables more appealing. She transforms green beans and cauliflower into veggie nuggets, which her children readily accept. “They like green beans but not by themselves, so we just fry them in a little bit of butter and dip in breadcrumbs. The same with cauliflower and lots of other vegetables,” she explains.
“I make sure their plates aren’t too full or overcrowded, as too much food at once can feel overwhelming,” says Kieron Fisher, a teacher from Newbury, Berkshire.
Kieron, who has twins Kit and Ollie, suggests incorporating vegetables into meals his children already enjoy, such as curries and spaghetti Bolognese. “It helps increase their vegetable intake without causing a battle,” he adds. He also recommends using visual boards to show children what to expect next, blending routine with fun.
Hidden Treats and Family Involvement
Emma Robins from Reading has found success by disguising broccoli in pesto pasta and blending vegetables into sauces. “If they say one day they want carrots, run and get the carrots and give big praise when they eat them,” she says. Her three-year-old son Alfred particularly enjoys these disguised options, and she encourages offering multiple choices in lunchboxes to create a sense of autonomy.
“If they’re hungry, they’ll eat. I don’t force them to because I think that can instil pressure,” says Doone, a parent from London.
Doone, who has two children with fussy eating habits, emphasizes leading by example. “I always eat with my girls and I eat what they’re eating,” she says. The British Nutrition Foundation supports this, stating that food should be a shared family activity, allowing kids to learn from their parents’ choices.
Creating a Balanced Approach
Kieron highlights the importance of portion size, suggesting smaller plates to avoid overwhelming young palates. “We try to make everyone try everything in our house, even the tiniest bit,” he says, reinforcing the idea of gradual exposure. Doone also limits snacks to ensure children are less distracted during dinner, while Natalia leaves healthy finger foods like chopped peppers and apples out for spontaneous snacking.
Some children may refuse new foods or even reject favorites, a common occurrence according to the NHS. More than half of children experience fussy eating habits at some point, often due to the bitterness of vegetables. While most habits improve over time, it’s worth seeking medical guidance if food avoidance becomes persistent and impacts nutrition.
Encouraging a positive relationship with food involves creativity and patience. Whether through hidden vegetables, family meals, or interactive activities like fruit picking, parents can help build a healthier appetite. As one mum from Barnes Primary School puts it, “Keep going. Keep offering it and they will pick it up and try it.”

